Coaching’s Crazy Money Vibe. 3 Ways to Get Past It!

2009 June 24

This post is inspired by a conversation with my coach, whom I admire, Jeannette Maw, Law of Attraction Master. Thank you, Jeannette!

Hey coaches! Are you sick of all the “make more money” talk not grounded in your experience or the reality of business?

I believe that we, the coaching industry, are creating anxiety and misperception about the earning capabilities of coaches. How many of our conversations are about money? I’m proposing we change that.

Here is a sample of the e-mails I receive from other coaches touting their wares, “Join the Six Figure Club”, “Are You an Underearner?”, “Special Issue on Money”. You would think that all coaches are starving or close to it.

I’m a bit concerned and irritated, quite frankly, when the industry that puts itself out there to help people with problems like money can’t come up with a better money story. It just doesn’t add up.

So I’m asking myself and you readers, “What is the story with the coaching industry and money?!”

Here’s where I think our ability to be effective about money in our coaching business fails:

  1. Shallow Cheerleading. We are overly enthusiastic about the flocks of folks becoming coaches that we don’t want to “burst their bubble” and address realistic earnings and business planning.
  2. LoA Confusion. The concepts and behavior of money, energy, and LoA are inseparable (check out GoodVibe blog to get up to speed on this topic). Once we are a coach, we fear that if we’re not making lots of money our vibration is “off”. It becomes a dirty little secret. We fail to look at where we spend our time and energy in the real world, which is what ultimately determines our degree of success.
  3. Lack of Consistent Business Tools. Established industries have consistent tools to run the business (P&L, performance metrics, risk analysis), regardless of the company. Coaching has lots of different tools.
  4. Practice Variations. Most coaches earn money from training other coaches, or selling to coaches. There are few proven models out there because few coaches are truly flourishing financially, and fewer are doing it the same way.
  5. Remedial Business Skills. This may be the biggest gap. With the low barrier to entry for coaching, many enter with zero business experience. Are we doing them a disservice to not provide that as part of training?

This month’s issue of Choice magazine focuses on money, and making more of it. It’s the second time in about two years that Choice has dedicated an all-money issue. I looked up several coaches who specialize in business management; all of their tools are on-line, for a price.

I’m on fire about this one because the basic coaching model is simple: Xhours x $Y per hour = cash. And just like any business, it can be diagnosed for specific problems (lack of hours, no clear business plan) and consistent, effective solutions applied.

So if it’s so simple, what trips us up?

  1. Action Paralysis. We don’t know what NOT to focus on. From add-on software, ad-words and websites to everything in between, we are constantly bombarded with products and training to purchase and use without any idea which is effective.
  2. Zero Financial Planning. Lack of a template to map out projected monthly income and expenses. This is a business basic, but most coaches haven’t a clue.
  3. Wasting Time. No correlation between the quality of effort and the income generated.

So here’s the bottom-line. I got so excited that I committed to Jeannette that I would have some truly useful tools for coaches soon. I don’t know what this will look like or how the heck it will happen.

Tell me coaches, what do you want to see? What would help you the most in your practice now, regardless of how long you’ve been in the biz?

Be the first to hear it,  join Jeannette’s open course on Manifesting Money, starting July 8. Check it out here .  I’m going to be there drinking in the smart sense Jeannette always comes through with and leading a session on “How Would Animals Behave Around Money”.

7 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 June 24

    This is why I’m so excited you accepted my invitation to lead a bonus call for the Money Group next month, Melissa! Straight talk about money in the real world – woo hoo!!

  2. 2009 June 24

    I’m honored! Thanks for being here and creating the opportunity to get clear on money. The energy is building already.

  3. 2009 June 25
    Jenny permalink

    Melissa,

    Thank you for being so honest. I’m currently a coach-in-training and I have heard other coaches tell us to get all excited about what we want to achieve as coaches, including how much money we want to make. They tell those of us in training to dream big.

    I had a conversation with a coach when I was trying to decide if coaching was the right path for me to take, and she almost tried to tell me that it wasn’t possible to be financially successful as a coach–that she’d been at it for a few years and wasn’t making enough to cover her bills. (I didn’t sign up to be coached by her!)

    I look forward to what you provide us. I figure there has to be a balance of supporting ourselves and our families financially as coaches, and also being realistic (for the short term). I know there are some wildly financially-successful coaches out there, so it’s okay to dream a bit big.

    And I think I will just sign up for Jeannette’s class. I’ve been looking it over and hadn’t made up my mind yet. Thanks for the encouragement!

    Jenny

  4. 2009 June 25

    Hi Jenny,
    Great to meet you here!
    Wow! You’ve got it – the balance. Why else would we coach? I’m glad you stuck with coaching despite encountering a coach frustrated with her earnings. Sounds like she would benefit from Jeannette’s class. Thanks for bringing your experience and encouragement to me; my consulting side is having fun with this one.
    We are going to have a good time in Jeannette’s class. She has the money vibe down, and I’m bringing my “other life”, exploration and film-making to give a different spin to money.
    Looking forward to seeing you there.
    With love,
    Melissa

  5. 2009 July 8

    Great post, as always. What would you recommend as starting points for creating a business plan or financial plan for folks just getting started? When you say coaching, I think you could just as easily substitute the word entrepreneur and have the advice apply.

  6. 2009 July 8

    Hi Ben, thanks for being here. I love your question. The starting point is knowing what you want to offer to clients. I’ve got a lot of business plans to comb through; I’ll put the best ones here.

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